Long-Distance Love Relationship, Does it Really Work???

Assalammualaikum,

Holla! I cannot sleep and thus, i'm writing my new post..
Ahh this time, about LOVE! Hahaa. But i'm going to specific it into Long-Distance Love Relationship.
Nah, what comes to your mind when i talk about this topic???

This topic somehow related to me. I've experience it back then, like 6 to 7 years ago.
The first is, do you know the meaning of long distance relationship?

A long-distance relationship (LDR) or a "long-distance romantic relationship" (LDRR) is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable distance. Partners in LDRs face geographic separation and lack of face-to-face contact. 
Source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long-distance_relationship

Okay, Thanks Miss Wikipedia :)


Well, When i was 18.. I experience my first love. WUUU..sounds nice right? Yeah, Of course. However, i'm just unlucky like you girls, since my BF go for Egypt to further his study. Same goes with me, But i'm also further up my study at Malaysia.

At first, we just like normal couples like calling, and texting all the time. He exchanged his timetable with mine and  we did made some efforts like sleep late at night since u know, our time is different right?it was about 7hours different with Malaysia's time. 
Indeed, long distance relationship require sacrifice in terms of time and money. Yeah talking about money, during that time, we do not have like Whatsapp, BBM, WeChat,Line,KakaoTalk and etc. So, we just sent normal text which cost almost 70cent per SMS. Huu, I did top up my credit a lot! But for the sake of my love, i'm willingly to do what it takes. :)) Sweet right?Hehehee

Now, why it did not work on us? Yes, i did heard some long distance relationship succeed. However, for us...It such a failure. We did not have trust on each other. Well, Trust is the most important thing to make the relationship success! But we did not have it with us and we kept argue and being jealous about small things. ATTENTION!! Small things can grow up bigger if u did not solve it well.

Until now, i still stay single and i heard he got a new GF. I quite sad, however.. If he is happy..Then I'l happy as well..So, peeps.. I admit, now i did not believe in long distance relationship. But, it is not a harm if u want to try it. But to make your love success, PUT YOUR TRUST IN YOUR PARTNER (AT LEAST 60%, WELL, NOT BEING SUSPICIOUS IS ALSO QUITE A PROBLEM), PUT AN EXTRA EFFORTS AND LOVE SINCERELY..
And if it is still not work out well, It's all in Allah's hand. If he's yours, he will return to you. InshaaAllah

That's all from me,

Q :)